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Why most people will never deprogram and become who they really are. Deprogram to learn their own heart, to accept the human condition, and to seek God in Truth.

Because it involves great Truth by courage to expose one's own heart to another human.  Becoming vulnerable.  #2 It cannot happen with out God's help.  #3 Most people will never seek God at length. Most people will never put God above all their desires.  Why?  The flesh fights against this.  Seeking God at depth requires great desperation and often disaster is needed that triggers motivation that cause sincerity toward God.  #4 To become the clay means to seek God no matter the cost.  Men know they cannot seek God with all their heart without some horrible or at best an uncomfortable situation making them desperate.   Deep down in their hearts humans do not trust God with control. They will avoid the possibility of trials and struggle at all costs.  This is understandable.  And it's why they say "Be careful what you pray for".  To become the clay in God's hands...is different with each person.  Only God knows what it will take for me and you to become children of God.  It's worth it.

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Do you know your a slave?    Do you know you have been programmed?  Dramatically and thoroughly PROGRAMMED?  I apologize but it takes seven years minimum to deprogram and learn one’s own heart.

What is Deprogramming?

I am talking about becoming ONE.  Wholeness.  Accepting one’s carnal side and one’s spiritual side.  It’s a process of being the clay in Fathers hands of Love.  Crying and screaming is required.  Writing and sharing is vital.

The Beast handed us the blueprint for deprogramming.  But most people who engage in the process NEVER GET PASSED THE STEP 2.  Oh they will pretend they are doing the deed.  But they don’t include God.  And they do not include TRUTH.  Truth and God two of the most important ingredients in the deprogramming process.

Is it so hard to believe that everything you need is right in front of you?

Men who do not understand their own emotional patterns of behavior and do not know their own heart are incapable of admitting that they are programmed.  How does a man deprogram himself?  First God Almighty must be sought with thy whole heart.  Ye must seek God and become the clay in His hands if you wish to deprogram.

You must hold NOTHING BACK.  Shame and fear will squash the deprogramming process.

Example-“I can’t tell God or man THAT.   Says the student.  I mustn’t share that one thing that I do not want anybody to EVER know!”  Or The student will repress the “ONE thing they want no one to know” burying it so deep they cannot employ Truth where it’s needed.   They are incapable of Truth at this point.  They cannot see their own true feelings.

I have worked with one woman who would not and could not ever admit fear.  She was so entirely programed against being afraid that she could not identify when or why she was afraid.  I tried to teach her that fear is NOT bad.  It is for our very survival and part of the human condition.  She just could not go there while she was clearly afraid and many things.

You see its not “fear” itself that is bad for humans.  ITS HIDING FEAR AND NOT EXPRESSING, NOT SHARINGIT WITH OTHERS THAT IS BAD FOR NOT ONLY OURSELVES BUT THOSE AROUND US WHO JUDGE THEIR INSIDES BY YOUR OUTSIDES.

It’s unfair to others that we do not show our true selves.  “What is wrong with me” the child says to himself as he believes the people who wear the masks of fearlessness.

The programmed man now fervently believes his own lies.  This is why God must be sought at every step of the way. To clear away self deception is primary.   Often times only God Himself by your submission to Him can clear away self deception that runs so deep a person can’t see their own heart.

How do I seek God and deprogram myself?  All things are available to men who will merely look with an open mind.  The same reasons Christians cannot identify & see the Antichrist, False Prophet, and Beast system is because of their emotional condition.

Fear must be admitted and embraced as being part of the human condition.  By the fear and shame of FEAR itself, children are controlled and programmed.  First by the foundational trauma programming that says  “I am bad and wrong”.  And that being “Different” is BAD!  VERY BAD & wrong.

And then once your heart truly believes that your are wrong and bad in every way they have the power to make you a parrot of whatever programs from the image of the beast that you want to subconsciously follow.

Example–“I loathe myself therefore I will become Jan Brady from the Brady Bunch.  Then they will like me.  Then I will be loved, THEN I will be right, and good.

The solution they handed us to deprogramming offers two options.  Either simply run the blueprint deprogramming process and get reprogrammed into yet another controlled mask identity.  Or use the blueprint with God’s help and deprogram into freedom from the beast.  Change everything without become a slave to some other new program they invented.

What am I talking about when I say the solutions to beast programming are right in front of us?  What is the Blueprint to Deprogram?

The 12 steps my friend.  The 12 steps when done in Truth, with great courage, and God’s guidance.  When done in spite of the fear we feel.  And in conjunction with empathic therapy where one can learn to open up and express their true heart…these two thing together by God’s Love can deprogram a man from the beast’s throng.

The therapist MUST BE EMPATHIC validating your feelings that led to your behaviors throughout life.  One must go back, go back all the way to childhood to find your own heart.

We must be as little children to inherit the kingdom of God.

Little children before they learned to hide behind a mask are forthright and truthful.  They are full of imagination and idea.  They are transparent and have no reason to be ashamed of who they are.  It’s only when they learn that they are wrong and bad that they commence to become the mask of deception.  Eventually believing they are the mask that they are wearing.

You will hear divorcee’s say this.  “I never knew him, he was not who I thought he was”.  Unfortunately 99% of humanity are not who they portray they are.  They picked up the mask long ago.

Become the Mirror Drinker.  Find your true heart by courage.  And then accept your humanity, the human condition.  Seek God and become whole.  Become One.

Teaching on the 12 steps are at https://recoveryfarmhouse.net

and https://recoveryfarmhouse.com

My book.  https://paradiseforthehellbound.com/read-free

First ‘the problem’ at the end of the page is my website for emotional deprogramming solutions.  Not everyone gets as thoroughly programmed as I was.  There are variables such as empathic and encouragement by parenting that can prevent to an extent trauma based programs from taking hold 100%.

Truth is magical.  It is spiritual armor.  Truth absolutely sets a man free when he embraces it to see his own heart.  I know this by experience.  I also know most of us think we already know who we are at heart level.

There was a time when I was quite literally beside myself emotionally.  I had so much self loathing denial and blindness were my best friends.  I ended up in a rehabilitation facility.  I had a moment during a talk with a therapist that I felt my spirit reconnect with my body.

Speak Kindly to One’s Self and to Others

You & I have no right to condemn ourselves for any ingrained human feelings we experience.  God is our judge not us.  There is no wrong feeling only wrong actions.  What forms good character is not that a person has no anger in them, or has no selfishness or thoughts of malice.  But rather it’s that he acts in Love in spite of his selfish or malicious nature.

We are not animals.  Yet we do have instincts grounded in human and social survival.  Fear is for our very bodily survival.  Fear run riot or fear acted upon rashly is another matter entirely. Fear, when it paralyzes us from the good that our heart desires for us is not a survival skill its a hindrance.  Fear is destructive if by it we react and do harm to others.  Let’s start with fear of people, social fears.  I want to put some things in perspective that took me years of self examination and 12 step with therapy helps to understand about the human condition.

What is good behavior?

Rules for humans.  Do no harm.  Help (Love) others if & when we have the opportunity.  Respect (Love) others as we want to be respected (Loved). Show others care & kindness (Love) as we want to be cared for.   Be empathic by encouraging and showing understanding to others.  Rather than always making others “bad & wrong” and seeking out differences.  #1 Seek God with all your heart, mind, & spirit.   “Do unto others as ye would have them do unto you.”

Thinking something ‘bad’ is not the same as doing something ‘bad’.  Everybody feels animosity toward other people. How we treat others is what matters.

Granted-I know I know Jesus said (allegedly) that if you think it your guilty already of murder.  But come on!  That just isn’t true is it?  Committing murder and wishing someone dead are two different things entirely.   At best lets say Jesus went to an extreme to make a point. Though I do not think He would do that.  He was quite the stickler for Truth you see.

What that scripture does is condemn the entire human race as being evil, bad, and wrong.  Much like the book of 1st John which commands that we do nothing but Love eight days a week I love ah ah ah ove you.   Eight days a week…..right.  They may as well name 1st John the “Condemnation of Mankind” book.  What am I talking about?

If I label ANY of my feelings “wrong & bad” then I am playing the accuser of the breathren.  I do not have the right to condemn myself.  God gave me my feelings and I can only work with what I have.

NEVER Compare your insides to someone elses outsides.   People are acting on the most part they are players on the stage of life pretending to be something they are not.  To see, embrace, & accept one’s true identity will set you free.  To know one’s own heart is rare in this age.

Many people have no clue as to who they are and what their heart is saying.  What?  We repress our hearts voice early on in life and become masters of denial.  Why?

BEAST SYSTEM PROGRAMMING.  “I am bad & wrong”  So I will become someone else.  Program resources-parents, education system, TV, Phone, interaction with others.

For instance…why do the teachers give multiple choice?  Result-Only one right answer programs closed minded children.  Closed to options & various solutions.  If we had 3 or 5 right answers over and over and over and over we develop our minds to be broadened in thinking neuralpathways.  No dead ends in the mind.

Can I reprogram?  The good news is “Yes” we all can reprogram.  But its work and first we must see ourselves as to not only who we are but WHY we are.  We must see our emotional behavior patterns of survival.

I know I have fears.  I know I have selfishness and I accept these as being part of the human condition.  I accept that I have instincts that are feelings and are beyond my control to change them.  But I do not have to act upon these instincts if it does harm or slights others.

How do most people deal with the instincts they see in themselves that are labelled “character flaws” or “bad & wrong” by society?

DENIAL.  Denial is a self-deceptive emotional survival skill that the masses use at every turn.  Blinding one’s self to instincts of the human condition is due to condemnation.  Denial is put in place from childhood and it causes a host of problems. If a man doesn’t know his own heart how will he go before God in Truth?

People who use emotional denial tools because they have no healthy coping skills end up very twisted and very blind in old age.  Plus they are incapable of healthy relationships.  Unless the other party can see into their behavior at heart level and show understanding.

Next “Find the child within”  Pretty much the entire recoveryfarmouse.com website addresses reprogramming in the context of recovery from addiction.  Same thing.

My .com version of recoveryfarmhouse crashed and is unretrievable apparently.  Fortunately I did a .net with the same topics that are VITAL to self Truth.  Check the sitemap for topics.

How To Become Who You Really Are – Recovery Farmhouse

THE MASK MUST COME OFF – Recovery Farmhouse

Recovery from Grave Emotional Disorder – Recovery Farmhouse

We Addicts Are Programmed to Demoralize One Another – Recovery Farmhouse

Alcoholics Anonymous- The Broken Program Made by Broken People – Recovery Farmhouse

Programmed to be Addicted & Betrayed by Technology – Recovery Farmhouse